Living with Your Husband's Secret Wars

Any woman whose life has been shattered by her husbands secrets will find courage and strength in the pages of this helpful book. Consider it your instruction manual to putting the pieces of your life back together -- Drs. Les and Leslie Parrott, Seattle Pacific University; authors of Relationships

As a counselor, I found this book immensely practical in helping men and women struggle through to find resolution and hope. As a woman, I found it compassionate, deeply personal and honest. Marsha has provided hope and direction for those whose secret wars have yet to be discovered and whose battles have yet to be won -- Jan Frank, author, counselor, speaker

Marsha Meanss book is a must read for every woman who has a husband struggling with sexual addictions. In these pages is a compassionate portrayal of these women, and she offers some how tos in dealing with their husbands and their private devastations. A wonderful book! -- Ann Kiemel Anderson

The wife of a sex addict must also confront the secret sin of her husbands addiction. Beginning with the devastating disclosure or discovery, she must deal with her emotions, grieve her losses, and - most importantly - identify and change her own part in the addictive dance. Marsha Meanss book is an excellent guide for women who seek recovery and healing. It correctly points wives toward changing themselves, rather than focusing on their husbands. With biblical principles as a foundation, this helpful resource offers information, understanding, challenges, and hope. Living with Your Husbands Secret Wars will be my standard recommendation to Christian wives who are married to sexual addicts -- Marnie C. Ferree, M.A., marriage and family therapist, Nashville, Tennessee

Marsha Means and her husband, Pat, host a radio program called Love under Fire in Seattle, Washington. They also have a ministry called "Love under Fire," which provides hope and healing for couples in crisis over workaholism, substance abuse, sexual addictions, and extramarital affairs.